Aita for asking my friend to walk me home. You literally called her a psycho in your post.

We booked one of those all-day bus tours where there’s multiple stops that you get off at to explore before getting back on. Backstory: My father’s not in my life. 3 of my close friends and I recently made a 4 hour trip to a music festival. Help keep the sub engaging! So I walk out and she starts talking about how she has never gotten along with women, so she was happy that I was chill. When I was a kid I always wanted a dog but my parents said no. Equivalent_Olive_895. He had cremeted and used to keep her ashes in their home. For context, he was using a very old style smart phone so #Shorts Rebuttal by u/Roeapparently. Fourth, she was only crying because you were calling her names. I got blocked a lot. Again, it’s your wedding, your choice. I could tell she didn’t mean it. I love my dad and we have the best relationship anyone could hope for. It’s too bad there isn’t more time, because if he was actually able to come out beforehand, bringing his boyfriend to the wedding would have been fine. AITA. I asked her what she had to lose other than a few seconds. Your stepdad doesn’t automatically have that right just because he’s been in her life for 15 years. As for the fallout of my asshole moment, John sent another nasty message that got even more personal, including telling me some things about our past and my father that were very hurtful. The lakehouse has My friend (20M) and I (19F) both go to school in the US, but we are both in a foreign country in Europe to gain work experience. Among those friends is my best friend, Melissa (28f). My husband's friend (31) lost his wife 4 monrhs ago. I (23F) was supposed to go on a girls weekend trip to Spain with my long time friend of almost 10 years (24F) and her other female friend (28F) who I was excited to meet. AITA for asking my friend to walk me home? I for one I'm glad that you are embarrassed, because that means that you're not lying in an unmarked grave, or SA'd. Edit: aisle* english isn’t my first language so apologies for any mistakes. It is not like ordering a meal that will be EXACTLY as you prefer it. She asked you to go out with her friends as she'd made plans. The test says my husband isn’t the father. I am (20) a single mother of 8 month olds boy-girl twins who is a college student and living alone with my 17 year old sister. YTA, it's her flat, your girlfriend needs to work from home, and she doesn't know your friend. I asked her if I could pray for her, and she seemed hesitant about it. The internship is unpaid, but the school provided a small stipend to pay rent for those with financial need. I have come to the decision with help from all of you and the person who messaged me (you know who you are)I will not be going foward with this marriage I already discussed this with my fiancé but instead of telling her to drop it he just let her go on, my parents noticed her behavior, my dad told her that I wasn't planning on being a mom, but she just laughed it off and said that I'll change my mind, the started making a toast, She made a toast saying "to my future grandchildren" I got sick spupper11. For context, I am 23 year old (F) who has been living and renting an apartment with two of my friends who I will refer to as G (M) and K (F), both are a similar age to me. Home. AITA for not letting my dad walk me down the isle? Not the A-hole. AITA for not letting my dad walk me down the aisle at my wedding. Three months ago, Melissa ended her relationship with her long term boyfriend and has been NTA- you can pick who ever you want to walk you down the isle. I have always been a very independent person, and very set in feminist ideals. She started to walk up the aisle by herself to represent her father’s absence, then her stepfather joined her halfway. AITA for turning around and going home on my way to the airport for a girls trip? Not the A-hole. Julie has 3 children (7, 10, 11). I took a screenshot of that message and it is the header of my profile on Facebook. 1. I don't mean that in a way that it's Almost all wedding etiquette comes down to “don’t upstage the couple”. Asshole. AITA for asking my friends what flavor their wedding cake is? Originally posted to r/AmItheAsshole. Throwawaystroub. For context; I am a 21 year-old female and the youngest child in my family, the girl in question is my older sister's friend… ADMIN MOD. 21 votes, 19 comments. AITA for wanting my son to walk me down the aisle at my wedding? Not the A-hole. I’ve lost count of how many times I go to look for something of mine only for her to say she lent it to somebody. I (21M) have been friends with Annie (21F) for 3 years now, since the start of college. AITA for asking my dad's wife why she expected to walk me down the aisle when she's not my mom? MOD. All my friends think I was being nicer than they would’ve been and they’re completely on my side. It's your wedding, not a party to honor your stepmother feelings. 7. PS, she's right. AITA for making my wife pay me for something she gave away. Hello everyone ️ I posted my last post 8h ago and since then I have had time to think about what I really want. For context I am 26F and my father has never been in the picture he left the same day I was born leaving my mother to take care of me. I am currently taking action to not let my father walk me down the isle because of how he treated me as a child. With this in mind, my sister, after getting engaged, asked me if I would do the honor of walking her down the aisle. ADMIN MOD. I don't have a big family, just my dad and my older sister. My friend Lisa lived near the LCBO so I asked her if she could buy us the bottle, and I’ll come to pick it up, she agreed and I sent her $15. Never regretted it for a second (and my asshole dad is alive). AITA For making my friend walk 3 miles to get lunch. And sorry for the long post. AITA for refusing the opportunity to walk my sister down the aisle? Not the A-hole. My friend and I both got the stipend. She went on to cuss me out and hung up. Nope. Reels My friends and I got ridiculously drunk on a regular basis in my late teens/early twenties - it was just part of having a fun night out with my friends. AITA for asking my bf to stop being friends with someone. I posted screenshots of messages I had gotten from all of them saying that I needed to step up. Original Post May 11, 2024. I feel so ashamed to lose my friend but I thought my husband would slightly understand since even he sees the obvious resemblance between him and this kid. Be respectful next time. My friend group consists of 3 girls: myself 22f, Liz 23f and lia 22f (fake name). Aita for not having my “father” walk me down the aisle. So I only had 50 seats, and therefore I told Julie she could not bring her kids but her and her So first time posting here, going through a bit of a tough dilemma, so decided to enlist the help of the AITA subreddit, here we go. Context: I (35F) was a big riot grrrl in high school, I hated rap and boy bands, was obsessed with my favorite band Taking Back Sunday (still am!) and I still go to lots of punk shows. Me and my boyfriend (F20 and M20) rented a lakehouse Airbnb for this week and we invited some friends. We also had a limited amount of seating available due to pricing and food catering. A couple in their late twenties with four small children. We’ve been really close since freshman year of college and we’ve always had the same dynamic when we go out. I'm uncertain if I'm being an asshole or not and seeking the opinion of internet strangers. Posted by u/Adorable_Landscape_9 - 12 votes and 16 comments We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. It's a beautiful sentiment to have your sister walk you down the aisle. I just roll my eyes and move on. RecordingCool4336. I [F26] have had a friend for a few years [F29] who is autistic. AITA for asking my friend to walk me home #story #foryou #storytime #redditmemes #tifu #subwaysurfers #help #aita #reddit. Not the A-hole. After we’re done, I walk her to her dorm first before heading back to my dorm. Issues began to arise between Dahlia and mom and I had to ask my friend, Anthony (M31) to let us move in til I get enough money to rent out. Me (F27) and my fiancé (M28) are getting married at the end of April. He isn’t helpless in saying no. She annoys me frequently. He was honoured and it was the best choice imo. This also isn't the first time you've called her names. Yea it’s tradition to have your dad but like you said your step dad has been more of a dad to you. So initially i asked my poppa (mums dad) to walk me. It was about 8:15 PM and dark out in one of the busiest downtown parts of our city. Okay yes, the title makes me sound like I'm the asshole. A male friend of mine that's a few years older agreed to walk me down to my future husband. This has been the default and I never really thought too much of it. I had my brother walk me down the aisle when I got married. We usually chill at one of our friend’s places every Saturday night with our friend group. If Katie is not who the other two wish to associate with, then Katie’s mom and step dad need to help her find other friends. Two of my friends got stable, relatively well-paying jobs out of university (they were head-hunted from Computer Science), and these jobs give them a surprising amount of time off. My fiancé Mark (30m) planned a surprise proposal for me (28f) and invited all our family and friends. When i was 14 my mother died giving birth to my now 20 year old sister Elise, my father blamed El and started excessively drinking. Part of our intended wedding ceremony will involve me being walked down the aisle & given away, I enjoy a lot of the classic wedding traditions & that's one I really want to carry out. NAH. The problem started when we first got on the bus: There were five of us in the group. So my stepdad has been in my life since I was 6. I (21f) have been dating my partner (24m) since my freshmen year of college. Since I have an SUV, I volunteered to drive. My wife (39F) and I (42M) have three sons, Alex (15), Dylan (11), and Jake (8). AITA for asking my sister to watch my children. If you don't have a fence it can be pretty awkward for them to just pretend you're not there. So, we planned for a kid free wedding. AITA for making my son walk the dog? Asshole. She ended up saying no, and we go into a little disagreement about religion. She got married at 23 and by all accounts, marriage is great. TL;DR at the bottom! I (25F) am getting married in 3 months to my fiancé (26M). Ex husband to current husband and it's kinda symbolic. I grew up with a single mother who worked night shift at a motel. Her husband is a great guy and they now have two kids, (2 years M) and (6 months F). My father passed away when I (m26) was 22 and my sister (f29) was 25. 1 (27F) have known my best friend, let’s call her Stella since we were teenagers. There are 8 of us on this trip. The wife is a SAHM and the husband is a trucker. Aged 18 I married my high school sweetheart. Last month my old neighbors moved out and some new ones moved in. As a result of us not having kids, our home isn't exactly 'kid proof'. #Shorts ANY friend would have cared about her wellbeing and done it because they genuinely care about her. She has a purse dog that I’m allergic to, and she brings it everywhere, despite me saying “hey, Bologna can’t come to my house today. Her husband is a light black man. It’s all about putting all responsibility on women while letting men off the hook. Saw another post that reminded me of this situation. He's known me since I was about 6 years old and has been an amazing friend and basically a brother. The only kids welcome to attend was my daughter's from my previous marriage (10 and 14). Live. He was very Pervy to me especially in middle school and early high school. My fiancé asked if I'd have my parents or my brother walk me down the aisle. Walking someone (daughter, sister, friend) down the isle is a privilege, not a right. I don’t want to take allergy meds and have to lock up my cat”. We left around 10am and after a couple of hours, my friend "Dave" said his phone completely died on him. When I was 12-15 I had a friend named Mary from school who lived the closest to me out of… ADMIN. It doesn’t even have to be your dad or step dad. My mom thinks I was a little harsh but she said she said she’d probably would’ve also done the same thing. My friends and I decided to take a trip abroad and we were all really excited. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. If she doesn’t want your dad then it’s not going to be your dad. I know I am asking a lot of her since rescuing dogs is her passion and that is why I feel so guilty. She can work from the bedroom, sitting room, kitchen, cafe, literally any place. Update:Aita for not letting my “father” walk me down the aisle. When we got there, my wife realized that she’d forgotten her prescription glasses. And while that was my original thought as well I had another idea. Two weeks after, I texted her and asked her for the now $55, no chillgal1014. AITA for asking my friend to text me when a rapper's set is finished? Asshole. He has always supported this though he never quite understood them, but educates himself. . I've probably been to 200+ in my life. (And other car related issues). I'm currently engaged to my fiance Kane (41) and we're getting married soon. So I'm a 19M and I have a group of friends that often hangout together, they consist of, my two best friends and a trio of other friends, and we've been hanging out almost every week for about 4 years now. It might make me the ass hole because you usually don't pay to go to weddings. She doesn't have to say yes. AITA for refusing to go to my best friend's wedding. And two of our single friends “Lauren” and “Simon”. Reply reply. NTA. "I'm not chill. She has ETA: This guy is literally gonna be homeless at the end of the day with this attitude. AITA For Avoiding My Autistic Friend? Not the A-hole. AITA for privately asking my friend about the paternity of her children. What's dumb is your dad suggesting otherwise. But I don’t have anyone else to help me. My boyfriend (18M) and I (18NB) have been dating for 9 months. I [27NB] have a best friend [33M] who's getting married. She also had a picture of her father on her bouquet as well. This past weekend was my bachelorette party. But bear with me. My sister, who is friends with my ex, said I was an asshole for expecting other people to pay child support for a kid that wasn't theirs. My wife has a bad habit of giving away or lending out things that don’t belong to her. I love the idea of normalizing having a friend or loved one walking you down the aisle! Not only is it more special and meaningful for you, but it rids the stigma that a father is to “give away” a woman to another man, like property. I took a couple of days after posting to think of how I wanted to proceed and then I took a chance OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) I asked my Mom to walk me down the aisle instead of my father. Their father passed away years ago. AITA for sending my friends home after bringing their kids after I asked them not to. After finding out about this my friend told me to "fuck off" and blocked me on everything and refused to my UPDATE: AITA for not paying for my friends eyelash extensions for her wedding. We have a week and a half left here. It got me thinking if I ADMIN MOD. People will still talk, but it wouldn’t stop the show. I assumed my dad wouldn't want to walk me down the aisle, tbh I don't want him to either, so I asked a male friend (58M) instead (1 week ago). She wasn’t asking you to drive her 3 hours home. She kept saying she respects what I believe, but she doesn’t believe it. Asking for an escort to your car is normal and okay; demanding is not. My sister decided move in with me because our parents are super overbearing and always makes all of our decision for us and can be pretty AITA for excluding my new neighbor from stuff and hurting her feelings. YTA for demanding/asking the way you did. One of them honestly flunked uni, and is now working at a pub. His wife was away visiting family and he agreed but even there, some issues started to arise. Me (M32) and my wife, Dahlia (F28) lost our apartment 2 months ago and moved in with mom temporarily. Your father is not owed this role. One person in that group (M21) let’s call him Jack, has known me since I was 7 or 8. My bf has a group of friends that all hangout together. I (22f) am in the wedding party of my friends we will call Em (25f) and Roe (25m) who will be getting married in about 2 months. She also takes forever to get the item back, she once AITA for asking my friend to walk me home? Video. We would have crazy drunken nights and then assess the damage the next day, and laugh at each others crazy antics - it was just a part of being young/uni life. My four bridesmaids and four of my other close friends spent the weekend at my grandmas cabin in the mountains! The official weekend plans were kept a surprise from me but I had set the expectation that I wanted to And since nobody really confronted her about it until OP did, she probably thought of her parents as part of the friend group. Neighbors who are outside and can see you also outside may say hello and try to chat if they're friendly. Your partner can look after your daughter once in a while. However my stepdad of 9yrs (34M) has suddenly decided to start crapping on the wedding. Like ok-let’s extend that to him. And should do, to try and bond with her. Sparing the details, her eyes bother her occasionally to the point where she has trouble seeing, especially at night. And she brings him anyway. He and his girlfriend are adorable and she understands the significance. Subreddit for listeners of the Two Hot Takes Podcast! Here you can post your own write ins, thoughts… The following week I walked home with people from my club as we all finished at the same time which we usually don't as I stay later and I had decided to walk the same direction as them for about 10 to 15 minutes for some of my walk home. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: AITA for asking guests to pay 10 dollars to come to my wedding in the canyon. Be blunt with her. Following the advice of the comments, I replied calmly and then blocked him. He unfortunately had to lose their home to medical debts and asked me and my husband to let him move in with us and stay for few weeks til he figures it out. Im an only child and don’t have any family beyond my mother as they disowned her when she fell pregnant with me when she was 17. Friendship cannot be forced as ordered. This is your wedding and you shouldn’t be pressured into doing something you don’t want. As I mentioned in my post, I will be seeing Mary again. Of the three, two were the same skin tone as her husband, and the third was much darker. My fiance (26m) & I (23f) have been together for over 2 years. At first I was elated and so I enthusiastically agreed. I can’t afford a babysitter long term, and my friends all have their own kids to look after. It shouldn’t be anyone’s. You're a 6'4 dude who got in a crying girl's face to scream at her and her boyfriend told you to back up and put himself in between the both of you. Help keep the sub engaging! ADMIN MOD. So our wedding is in few months and the topic of who would walk me down the aisle came up. An said it was either she used the scooter or she could stay home. What happened last night is rocking my friendship group so I need to know if I’m in the wrong for this. I, 35 female, am the only one in our friend groups without kids. There is no sad story there, we just don't want kids for multiple reasons. However, he recently bought me a new $17,000 car and I feel like maybe I should let him walk me since he spent so much on me. I'd already made Megan a part of the wedding. Me and my boyfriend “Alex”, “Kate” and her boyfriend “James” “Alyssa” and her boyfriend “Thomas”. At 14 I basically became the main caretaker of my three siblings, my aunt and a few family friends were able to help out but the most they could do w Long story short, my friend got a paternity test but said our friendship is over. I made it my goal to give my kids a better life. This reminds of a good friend I once had who would constantly ask for a car ride because he never fixed his car and didn’t want to spend money on gas. The fact that he messaged you telling you to change your mind after he already said he didn’t care just shows his fragile masculinity and the way he treated your sister. It was a nice tribute to her father and also a acknowledged the role her stepfather played in her life. Expand user menu Open settings menu Open settings menu We parked about two blocks away, about a 5-minute walk. This may seem trivial but it bugs me so I figured I’d ask. Thanks to u/czechtheboxes & u/USMCLee for suggesting this BoRU. YTA. (2) My father has been present and provided for me, but I still want my mother to walk me. ibuvuvug. He asked me to be a groomsperson, I told him I didn't feel comfortable taking a spot from his brothers (he has six brothers, all adopted, all of which he's pretty close to and I felt like he should ask them NTA it’s up to your sister who will walk her down the aisle. UPDATE. This man has known me for almost half my life, he's like a mentor to me & honestly has been more of a father figure to me than my actual dad has, I love him like a paternal figure. Hi all! First I want to say thank you to everyone who commented on my original post and got me to finally open my eyes to how my "friends" had been treating me. My husbands best friends wife isn’t my favorite person. As we’re getting on the bus, there Pepper-90210. For the most part, we have had little to no issues communicating. AITA for kicking my best friend out of my surprise proposal? Not the A-hole. My dad has always been a single parent devoting his life for me and my sister and working over 14+ jobs in the past 6 years to provide for us. Your sister made a choice, and she wants you to walk her down the isle. Especially when it takes little to no effort on your part. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. realvoicesofreddit · Original audio Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. My Dad was cool and could pop in when my friends and I were hanging out and he was actually accepted, sometimes my friends would ask him to hang out with us, but like once in a while. I went to introduce myself and bring them a pie right after they moved in. This used to be a common feature of sit-coms like "Home Improvement". She's not drinking like she's 20, she's drinking like someone who doesn't have a child. My father (53m) has r/AmItheAsshole. I'm a mother of two, my son Justin (19) and my daughter Megan (14). Family have told me it's unfair to him. She turned you down, and since you didn’t get what you wanted, you’re punishing her. He told us this during dinner. It’s wild to me seeing how many people are defending him and saying she shouldn’t act helpless. 699K subscribers in the TwoHotTakes community. Everyone Sucks. As my friends and I made our way over to her, she texted me saying she wasn’t able to get the bottle, but never sent back the money. She didn't ditch you. JustNotEn. For some context, my parents divorced when I was 6 years old, my mom remarried when I was 6 and my dad never remarried. I suggested that my ex husband should give me away to him. AITA for telling my friend to take her children and leave? This is a throwaway account, and I’m new to this. Throwaway account and fake names because my wife is also on Reddit. I'm tired of you blatantly ignoring your own man to get attention from mine. You literally called her a psycho in your post. I (20F) got married Dec 2021 and to my husband and I, our day was perfect. A few years ago, my close childhood friend gave birth to triplets. Idk. I'm sick of you hanging off my husband and acting like I'm not here. I am the only one out of the three of us that is on the lease, as the apartment is rented by my Mother and I. Also I just want someone to reassure me that my make-up and hair looks good tbh. Edit: over 60k karma. She’s some evil mastermind for manipulating and bullying him into it! Like wtf lmao She comforted me, but ultimately didn’t agree on anything and said she needed some time to think. AITA for dropping my friends for revealing my husband's infidelity? I've known for years that my (44F) husband (49M) cheats on me. •. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. bn gc qo ok st dz lc hm hu tf